Dating: 6 Tips for Success
Dating Success: Real-World Tips for Meeting the Right Match
If you’re single and looking for a genuine connection, you’re not alone. A recent article in PerthNow reveals what many of us already know - modern dating has changed dramatically. While dating apps are popular, many singles are casting the net wide (literally—up to 90km!) in the hope of finding something real.
At A Table For Six, we see hundreds of singles dine each month across our dinners in Australia and we’re seeing real results. Phone numbers are exchanged, second dates are arranged, and some couples go on to form meaningful relationships. It’s a refreshing reminder that meeting in person still works.
If you’re looking to boost your dating success, whether online or in real life, here are our top tips based on real connection and real people.
1. Be Authentically You
One of the most repeated tips from Logan Ury, Hinge’s Director of Relationship Science, is to show up as your true self. Whether it's in your dating profile or across the table at dinner, authenticity wins.
You don’t need to pretend to be someone you're not. Being honest about your interests, values, and lifestyle helps the right people connect with the real you.
2. Share Your Story, Not Your Resume
At dinner, we encourage you to go beyond small talk. Share stories! If someone asks what you do, don’t stop at your job title - tell them what you enjoy about it, or what you'd rather be doing on a weekend.
Great conversations are about:
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What lights you up
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Experiences you've had
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Things you're curious about
This is your chance to connect on more than just the surface.
3. Be Curious - Ask Questions
Being curious is more attractive than being clever.
Ask questions, listen deeply, and share your own thoughts.
A well-timed “That’s interesting, tell me more about that…” can open the door to a deeper, more memorable connection.
4. Be Clear About What You’re Looking For
Whether you’re seeking a fun connection or a long-term partner, being upfront is respectful and refreshing.
Chemistry and connection is often more that just superficial appearances. Usually it has more to do with someone's values and character - kindness, honesty, sense of humour.
At A Table For Six, many of our guests are seeking meaningful relationships. That’s why our format helps foster deeper connections over time.
5. Put the Odds in Your Favour - By Showing Up
It sounds simple, but this is the big one: get off the apps and into real life. Success in dating often comes down to showing up, trying new things, and meeting different people.
You may not meet "The One" on your first dinner, but you will meet good people, enjoy real conversation, and grow more confident along the way. And who knows? Sometimes love comes when you least expect it.
6. Have a Positive Outlook
One of the biggest turn-offs in dating? Negativity. It’s natural to feel flat or jaded at times, but approaching each dinner with an open, upbeat mindset makes a huge difference.
People are drawn to those who are kind, positive, and open to possibility.
Turn up to dinner with curiosity, lightness, and optimism. Even if you don’t meet your match, you’ll still enjoy the evening and create new connections!
Why Dinner Dating Works
At A Table For Six, we bring together small groups of singles for relaxed dinners in great restaurants. There’s no pressure, no awkward 1-1 small talk, and no algorithms - just real people, real conversations, and the chance to meet someone who shares your vibe.
Singles tell us they love the fun, the ease, the quality of people they meet, and the genuine conversations they have. It's dating without the stress.
Final Thought
Dating is all about new connections. Whether online or at dinner, the keys to success remain the same: be real, stay curious, and meet in person.
So if you're tired of swiping and ready to try something different, join us at an upcoming dinner. Your next great connection could be one conversation away.
👉 Ready to try dinner dating? See our events and register for your seat now!
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