Treat yourself as if you already are what you'd like to be

By Margaret, 15 August, 2014.

10 Secrets to Finding True Love

Dr Wayne Dyer is a well known author and speaker in the area of self-development. In his book "10 secrets of Success" he lists 10 powerful ideas for changing your life (and mine too).

The 10 secrets are listed below. But, my favourite at the moment is number 8: Treat yourself as if you already are what you'd like to be.

If you’re single or dating and would like to be in a loving relationship, act as if you already have a loving relationship. If you focus your thoughts, visualize and feel as if this is already your reality, the universe will conspire to bring you what you believe is your reality.. The more you see yourself in a loving relationship, the more inspired you are, which sets the momentum in your favor.

In your relationship with your partner, act as if what you would like to have is already here. If you want loving interactions, clearly visualize this and expect loving interactions to take place.

The Ideal Approach

In a romantic relationship, love the person enough by allowing him/her to be exactly who he/she is and what he/she chooses to be, without expecting anything and being attached to an outcome. If you can do this, you’ll find lasting love and inner peace. True love is about loving a person for who they are, not for what you think they should be.

Which secrets will you practice in your love life?
Have a mind that is open to everything and attached to nothing.

Don't die with your music still in you.

You can't give away what you don't have.

Embrace silence.

Give up your personal history.

You can't solve a problem with the same mind that created it.

There are no justified resentments.

Treat yourself as if you already are what you'd like to be.

Treasure your divinity.

Wisdom is avoiding all thoughts that weaken you.


Margaret Newitt


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