A new romance? It's never too late.
By
Margaret,
25 November, 2013.
No matter whether you're 35 or 75, it's never too late to fall in love again. Just ask some of our members who have been surprised how they have found love and it has taken them by surprise.
I listen to the stories of people's lives when they join A Table for Six. Everyone has such an interesting story to tell. Here is an example "I've been single for a while now and I'm quite comfortable. My friends are wonderful and I enjoy my work. I love my home and I'm very grateful for my family. Overall I've become very good at being single. But sometimes I really miss having a partner to share my life with. Someone to talk, snuggle and grow with. I'm afraid that after a divorce, it may be too late for me."
I also listen to the stories of the members who have found what they were hoping for, long after they they thought that was possible. Does this happen by accident or is it just good luck. Or is there something special they had done or changes they had made to connect with a partner at any age?
There is often a similar theme. They are people who had come to terms with the idea they may not ever find a special someone again. But, they had also done some inner work on themselves that meant they felt worthy of love. They had also reached a point where they were ready to accept a partner as he/she is and were ready to be accepted unconditionally by him/her.
They see their new relationship as peaceful with less drama. They have learnt from all of their previous experiences in their past relationships. Is their new love someone who is identical to them? No, but they share values and a commitment to bring out the best in each other. Each one is dedicated to the development of the other.
One couple I checked in with recently told me that their first year was hard. She was cleaning and tidying while he didn't clean or pick up. He loved to watch some TV while she didn't watch at all. Then they refocused on loving each other a lot and that's the most precious thing in the world. She accepted him the way he is and didn't worry about the little things.
"As you follow this path, you will find that compassion and acceptance replace fear, negative judgement, and worry. You will approach dating with curiosity, fascination, and a light heart, wanting only what is good for yourself and another person. Instead of choosing a partner based on images, pretense, and roles, you will be able to join your journey with another and learn what it means to create a spiritual bond that is flexible and expansive for both."
from "If the Buddha dated by Charlotte Kasl
Blessings
Margaret Newitt
www.atableforsix.com.au
1300 885 311
Lic no 3338670
I listen to the stories of people's lives when they join A Table for Six. Everyone has such an interesting story to tell. Here is an example "I've been single for a while now and I'm quite comfortable. My friends are wonderful and I enjoy my work. I love my home and I'm very grateful for my family. Overall I've become very good at being single. But sometimes I really miss having a partner to share my life with. Someone to talk, snuggle and grow with. I'm afraid that after a divorce, it may be too late for me."
I also listen to the stories of the members who have found what they were hoping for, long after they they thought that was possible. Does this happen by accident or is it just good luck. Or is there something special they had done or changes they had made to connect with a partner at any age?
There is often a similar theme. They are people who had come to terms with the idea they may not ever find a special someone again. But, they had also done some inner work on themselves that meant they felt worthy of love. They had also reached a point where they were ready to accept a partner as he/she is and were ready to be accepted unconditionally by him/her.
They see their new relationship as peaceful with less drama. They have learnt from all of their previous experiences in their past relationships. Is their new love someone who is identical to them? No, but they share values and a commitment to bring out the best in each other. Each one is dedicated to the development of the other.
One couple I checked in with recently told me that their first year was hard. She was cleaning and tidying while he didn't clean or pick up. He loved to watch some TV while she didn't watch at all. Then they refocused on loving each other a lot and that's the most precious thing in the world. She accepted him the way he is and didn't worry about the little things.
"As you follow this path, you will find that compassion and acceptance replace fear, negative judgement, and worry. You will approach dating with curiosity, fascination, and a light heart, wanting only what is good for yourself and another person. Instead of choosing a partner based on images, pretense, and roles, you will be able to join your journey with another and learn what it means to create a spiritual bond that is flexible and expansive for both."
from "If the Buddha dated by Charlotte Kasl
Blessings
Margaret Newitt
www.atableforsix.com.au
1300 885 311
Lic no 3338670
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